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True Therapy

Couple looking to each other during therapy session while therapist watchesOne of the most poignant moments in couples therapy work is the Reframe.  That’s the moment when they have an epiphany, in the midst of all their anger and frustration with each other, that they are both longing to be close to each other.  Behind all the painful words on the surface, underneath is a craving to be close.  All the hurtful comments are “reframed” as actually intense cries for help, love, and connection.  This deeper understanding of each other and their dynamic is a very powerful moment.  The Reframe is the beginning of the relationship healing. Continue reading True Therapy

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